Life is a journey. Couples buy the big house when they start their families. But when their kids fly the coop, they're stuck with a too-big house that no longer meets their needs or fits their lifestyle. The thought of starting over can be daunting.
Over the years after helping scores of empty-nesters downsize, we've found that folks sometimes lose their way during this phase. Here are our top tips to help keep everyone on track:
No one loves your stuff as much as you do.
The first three things we tell empty-nesters to do to get their home ready for market is to de-clutter, de-clutter, de-clutter. It's amazing how many things one can accumulate over a lifetime. As we age, we also tend to hold onto things as they connect us with our past. We know firsthand. We lost our dad almost 20 years ago, and to this day, our mom still refuses to throw out any of his belongings. Unfortunately, things that we think are important to our children may not be, and things that we think are disposable may have tremendous intrinsic value to our loved ones.
Here's how you can fight the urge not to purge:
Hire a professional
If you have found excuses for the last 25 years not to purge, it's unlikely that you can do this alone. Many of our clients work with professional organizers and/or estate sales companies to help them get through this process. A professional organizer can help you sort through decades of paperwork and belongings in an organized and systematic way. A professional estate sales company can help you sort through which items have value and which do not, and then sell them for you.
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